A soulmate is one with whom you feel a strong or instant attraction that usually develops into a relationship. Someone you feel familiar with because you recognise him or her at a soul level. You like them instantly and your familiarity with them goes beyond the time that you have known each other; you may […]
Love, Sex and Zen Wisdom
Sexual attraction and new love is so powerful and feels so visceral that it can make you think that having sex with a new partner will seal a meaningful connection and be the start of an enduring relationship. And you may find yourself succumbing to such forces, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Many of […]
How to Be Successful in Your Relationships
If your relationships are occasionally awkward, full of uncertainty and doubt, congratulations, you are normal. If you find that you are not capable all the time of being reasonable and mature in your relationships, congratulations, you are human. My previous relationships were tumultuous. They were fraught with emotional ups and downs, dramatic ultimatums and in […]
When It Is Not Your Time to Find Love… Yet
After making the decision to leave my last serious relationship, I thought that it would be easier to meet someone new. It wasn’t. I met people I liked, or people that liked me, but no relationship ever came out of these situations, either because I or the other party had not been interested, or they […]